Make sure you stop by Just Romantic Suspense today where I'm guest blogging!
This past weekend I completed my third half marathon. (My first where it wasn't pouring rain!) It was also Long Suffering's first 10k (6.2 miles) and he rocked his race!
Many, if not most, people who "race" are not elite athletes. We're not going to win any races. Heck, we're not even going to come near winning our age groups. But most of us are competing....with ourselves. We're all striving to beat our previous times and attain a Personal Record. Or, as they say in the UK, a Personal Best.
The term "Personal Best" appeals to me a lot more. I'm constantly struggling to achieve a Personal Best in many areas of my life, not just racing. For example: I want each of my consecutive books to be my "personal best".
But this weekend was about a race. 13.1 miles. I went into it knowing that I couldn't possibly beat my personal record. I'm very, very, VERY slow....so the bar is set very, very, VERY low, but there was no way I was going to do it. I've been plagued by injuries, nothing in my life has been going right, and I was stressed out.
Yet, I lined up at the starting line...the very back of the starting line. The VERY BACK...behind the other THREE THOUSAND other racers. (Long Suffering who watched the start said I was very last.) I lined up because I subscribe to the:
Dead Last Finish
Beats Did Not Finish
Which Greatly Trumps Did Not Start
way of thinking. (Again, it's one of those things that applies to the rest of my life.)
So I started dead last, but I started.
Right after the Mile Four marker (and had already watched the faster athletes pass me on a loop) I passed this sign, which, considering I think of myself as a tortoise, I found funny enough to stop and snap:
And I kept on trudging on....and a miraculous thing started happening. I started passing a few people.
I kept doing that and at about mile 8 I realized that I was on pace to meet the pace I'd done in my first half marathon (we won't talk about the disaster that was last year's race). So I picked up the pace a bit...and passed a few more people. And I kept doing that, despite the fact I was ready to amputate my left foot. My injury is the equivalent of a pinched nerve...so every step was agony.
And somehow, through determination (or stubbornness) I finished the race. And I achieved a Personal Best by about 14 minutes...which probably doesn't sound like much to you, but meant the world to me.
And here are our finisher's medals:
And here we are showered and happy (and in our dorky, matching finisher's shirts)!
Now it's time to think about my next goal.
And here we are showered and happy (and in our dorky, matching finisher's shirts)!
Now it's time to think about my next goal.
What Personal Bests are you chasing after? What sorts of "impossible" dreams have you, or are you chasing?




8 comments:
That's awesome, JB! Way to go on the personal best and way to go for Long Suffering, too! You guys rock. =o)
I think I just did a personal best getting that submission off to H/V. And with NaNoWriMo coming up, it reminds me of all the other times I fought that fight and won by doing the best I could do. I'm not chasing anything right now (including NaNo), unless you include my marathon foxhunt to publication, but I'm back to editing again. Different novel, of course, but getting this book actually finished will be a personal best. ;o)
You guys are so cute in your matching shirts! Congratulations on powering through and achieving your personal best. The personal best I'm shooting for right now is about finding the right balance in my life where everything I want to do falls into place without me feeling guilty about everything all the time. I'm getting there, slowly but surely - just like you, one step at a time.
Congratulations! Looks like you proved yourself wrong and achieved something you hadn't thought possible. I love your medals and the picks are great!
Personal best is something different for everyone, I think. When I write, I don't tend to think of besting myself, I just try to maintain the quality I know I can deliver. That's my way of continuing my personal best.
Jai
So proud of you, Jen! Way to hustle!
p.s. You look FANTASTIC.
I think the H/V sub definitely counts as a Personal Best. Good for you! Good luck with the next book!!!
Jennifer -- LOL, all the finishers get the same shirt...I was just thrilled they weren't ugly.
I seem to recall you quest for balance as being an ongoing theme in your life. If you figure it out, let the rest of us know!
Jai -- Thank you! I guess I proved I don't know everything, lol. I like your attitude!
Jennifer -- Ha! Red-faced is the flattering shade for Fall. ;-)
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